Moment 2 of 3

For every
session.

What is used month after month, in the circle you meet in every month. The participant booklet is the base piece: everything else leans on it.

You do not have to use them all in one session. Most months the booklet and The door are enough.

In Spanish for now

The participant booklet

The whole method on paper: the four pillars, the 95 and the 5, the eight blocks of the session, the eight roles, the agreement, the emotions wheel, the My three axes sheet and the sheets of the prepared case.

Twenty-nine pages, printed once a year per participant. The printable booklet exists in Spanish; the English one is being prepared.

The deep block

The prepared case

One woman brings a live situation and the whole circle works on it. What she does, what la acompañante does and what the circle does: the preparation, the sentence that opens the group, the five phases and the four failures.

Agreed one session ahead and prepared with an acompañante. One person per session.

The whole process

Instructions

The accompaniment

One hour, two women, before the session: helping her reach what actually weighs on her, so she does not discover it in front of everyone. With the question guide and the two formats — the prepared one and the urgent one, live in front of the circle.

It rotates. It is not one of the year's roles, so sooner or later it will be your turn.

How it is done

Tool

The door

The 52 questions a circle walks through to get into the subject of money, without requiring anyone to tell more than they want. You press the button and one comes up at random.

«The door» is the name of the third block of the session.

Get a question

To introduce yourself

The 3–2–1

The short way of telling your own story: three events that marked you, two people who shaped you, one important decision. And for each one, what actually matters: why it was important to you, then and now.

Used when there is no time for the full lifeline, when someone new joins, or to introduce yourself to another circle.

To come back to when you are unsure

The circle glossary

Every MQHD word with its explanation: the eight roles of the year, the eight blocks of the session, the concepts of the method, the sheets and the organisational words. And for each one, what it gets confused with — which is where almost all the value is.

The 5% is the concept, My three axes is the sheet, What weighs on us is the block. That is the confusion that costs the most.

See the glossary

To download

The money emotions wheel

48 words for naming precisely what a money situation produces. Used while filling in My three axes, before the session. «Bad» is not a feeling; «ashamed» is.

See and download

Instructions

The clearness committee

A woman brings a question she is stuck on and the circle may only ask her questions. Nobody advises. It is the tool that makes advising impossible.

How it is done

For the guide and for everyone

When someone breaks down

A short accompaniment protocol. What to look for, what to say, what to avoid, and when to stop accompanying and get help. Kept to hand in every session.

See the protocol

For the guide

The open space

The seventh block of the session. First, whatever is urgent that someone brings. If nobody brings anything urgent, it runs in one of its three formats: topic discussion, idea storm or invited expert, and their rules are different from each other.

Choosing the wrong format is the most common way to lose the block.

The three formats